Why is it when we look for a partner in business we look for like minded individuals with the same ideals and visions as ourselves? We want someone we respect and who has good business savvy that will help you reach your ultimate goal in life. Would you 'get into bed' with a business partner who has anything but your utmost respect?
Partners in crime: would you contemplate (hopefully not) but it is a good example, committing a crime with someone you hardly know? Someone you are not sure you can trust? someone you may know a little, but not really well?
Why then, when it comes to a lifetime partner or a spouse, one is ready to jump into a relationship half cocked. Not really knowing the other person or their goals, ideals or visions for the future? This to me is a sign of disrespect. Not respecting them enough to actually get to know them before jumping into bed with them (literally as well as figuratively). I think sometimes certain relationships fail because we are ruled by emotions, lust and physical attraction which makes us feel good when we are attracted to the other person but then we live by the mentality of; hey if it feels good then why not go for it.
But then it's all about feelings and emotions and lust (can't forget the lust). What happens when the feelings and emotions start to fade or die down? what are you left with then?
Just questions swimming around in the huge pool of my emotional brain. (yes I do have a brain)
let me be the first to comment and that is why some of us have contracts wether it marriage or anti nups you know what it mean it comes down tohow well you know the person before you commit yourselfbody and soul and of course there is the for better or worse which is included into such contract which you have to sign you did sign or did someone forge your signature, and i think thta sometimes we just think tooooo much and not carry on with life so maybe we hould not think to much but move on and enjoy the little life we have... all my love H
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